Samstag, 20. Dezember 2008

angry parents everywhere!

Okay yesterday we went out 'cause it was Friday. At first no one really knew what we were going to do, after a lot of phone calls between us 5 people, we decided on meeting at reyo's house.
We thought about a nice place to relax a bit but since most of us didn't want to go to a bar (I don't even know the one they were talking about! O_o) we decided on staying at a room above Duc's restaurant. We got the waterpipe and some drinks (2 Becks Sixpacks and 3 bottles of Smirnoff Ice) and went our way to that room.
it was really cool in there, nice atmosphere.
Reyo~ and I decided to walk across the street to his restaurant to get some instant noodles because we were reaally~ hungry.
That was the point where we made a wrong decision. We shouldn't have gone over there. Reyo~ asked his parents if it was okay to stay in Duc's room for the night. His dad got terribly angry and shouted through the whole restaurant because he thinks that Duc is the reason why his son is always out late. They had a fight for over half an hour. I don't know when, but I left the restaurant and went back to the other guys after phoning them.
We had a really funny time then, even though I wanted to help my friend somehow, but I knew that I wasn't allowed to say something against his parents.

It was past 5 a.m. when we decided to get some sleep but just for about 1 hour. Thoey and Chris were there too, but Thoey wanted to go home at 12 p.m. but then she stayed. She was worried because of the fact that her mom didn't phone her.
We woke up at 10 a.m. and went shopping. Afterwards we went to Duc's restaurant to eat, it was about midday already when Thoey's mom phoned her. She was very upset from what I heard.
A few minutes later, her dad phoned her, shouting at her, telling her to come home straight away. And off she was.

I really feel sorry for both of them. But that's the way children learn about life. Reyo's okay again but Thoey isn't allowed to go out and doesn't even have her laptop anymore... for now.

I thought maybe it would be better if I had such strict parents too. I don't have fights about things like that with my mom and we don't fight very often. Seeing that children still get hit in their familys makes me feel weird. It's like I feel totally childish because I didn't get hurt for years. Even if my mom tried to hit me, it didn't hurt at all and I always laughed, what drove her crazy. It's weird but I think it would be better if my parents were more strict. I wouldn't like it but I'd be prepared for the real world and stuff. I feel like mommy's little baby~~ haha

Today we went to visit Thoey but as I said she wasn't allowed to go out.
Then we visited Chris, watching 'Pops in Seoul' on TV and eating nuts.

Tomorrow's Reyo's birthday! I hope it's gonna be a nice day ^__^~

1 Kommentar:

  1. same here~

    I still feel overly protected and stuff by my parents since I'm still living with them even though I'm out working and stuff..
    yet I never got hit, of course we had so many fights, especially my dad and I would constantly yell at each other. I would bang the door, cry while he wasn't going to talk to me for days.
    And of course I got scolded for having wrong friends and whatever, but on the other hand my parents never did anything against my phases (the good old visu-shit).
    I don't know, sometimes it feels good since I had a very nice childhood and youth, but then from time to time I feel lost when I have to do things by myself which had been done by my parents all the time before.

    aaaagh.. so weird ô_o

    but I often find myself in the way you describe yourself. ^.~

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